Allow relative assets in rust > 1.88 (#4658)

* Allow relative assets in rust > 1.88 and assets outside of the crate in
binary crates

* undo changes to assets outside of the crate

* don't use relative assets in examples

Cargo.lock

@@ -12744,9 +12744,9 @@ checksum = "dc375e1527247fe1a97d8b7156678dfe7c1af2fc075c9a4db3690ecd2a148068"
 
 [[package]]
 name = "proc-macro2"
-version = "1.0.95"
+version = "1.0.101"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "02b3e5e68a3a1a02aad3ec490a98007cbc13c37cbe84a3cd7b8e406d76e7f778"
+checksum = "89ae43fd86e4158d6db51ad8e2b80f313af9cc74f5c0e03ccb87de09998732de"
 dependencies = [
  "unicode-ident",
 ]
@@ -13958,9 +13958,9 @@ dependencies = [
 
 [[package]]
 name = "rustversion"
-version = "1.0.21"
+version = "1.0.22"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
-checksum = "8a0d197bd2c9dc6e53b84da9556a69ba4cdfab8619eb41a8bd1cc2027a0f6b1d"
+checksum = "b39cdef0fa800fc44525c84ccb54a029961a8215f9619753635a9c0d2538d46d"
 
 [[package]]
 name = "rustybuzz"