feat: overhaul radio reconnection, TUI layout, DHT strategy, and signal handling

Radio reconnection:
- Add connect_mux_auto() to donglora-client — mux-only connect that never
  silently falls back to USB serial (matches Python client's sticky mux)
- Fix codec.rs read_frame() to handle WouldBlock alongside TimedOut
- Add liveness ping (2s) to detect dead mux connections
- Treat transmit errors as fatal (trigger reconnect)
- Faster backoff: 250ms initial, 5s max, resets after stable connection

TUI improvements:
- Redesign packet log: RF+Net columns show full packet path (RX→TX),
  hash column with dedup ellipsis, fixed-width columns throughout
- Move activity charts to right column (fills remaining width)
- 1-second sparkline buckets instead of 10-second
- Radio panel shows "(disconnected)" with red border when mux is down
- Header: status pills left, clock with TZ right-justified, Ctrl-C quits
- Local time via jiff crate with proper timezone abbreviation

DHT strategy:
- Alone: read every 3s, merge-publish every 30s (preserves existing peers)
- Connected: publish authoritative [self + neighbors], purging stale peers
- Publish immediately on first neighbor join

Signal handling:
- SIGINT and SIGTERM both trigger graceful shutdown via cancellation token
- All paths go through swarm.shutdown() to update DHT before exit

Cargo.toml

@@ -29,6 +29,7 @@ rand = "0.9"
 hex = "0.4.3"
 sha2 = "0.10"
 tokio-util = { version = "0.7.18", features = ["rt"] }
+jiff = "0.2.23"
 
 [lints.clippy]
 unwrap_used = "deny"